Is your level of intensity warm, warmer, or hot? Review the descriptions below, then click the link in the row that describes you best.
| Warm | Tending and Gathering Foxes are of warm intensity. In flirting with men, they are friendly and welcoming. In resolving conflicts, they tend to withdraw. To have fun, they most like doing things such as low-key socializing. |
| Warmer | Painting and Singing Foxes are of warmer intensity. In flirting with men, they are subtle and alluring. In resolving conflicts, they want to smooth things over. To have fun, they most like doing things that involve the arts. |
| Hot | Dancing and Hunting Foxes are of hot intensity. In flirting with men, they are intent and inviting. In resolving conflicts, they can be confrontational. To have fun, they most like doing things that require movement. |
| Assuming you’re single, how would you flirt with a man you found attractive? | |
| Warm | I’d smile at him, maybe flip or rearrange my hair. If he approached, I’d give him a friendly hello and wait for him to start a conversation with me. |
| Warmer | I’d give him a flirty look, and adjust the way I was sitting or standing to “open up” towards him. If he approached, I’d give him a sly smile. |
| Hot | I’d try to get close to him. If he approached, I’d put myself within his personal space. If I really liked him, I’d touch him on the shoulder or arm. |
| I think it would be really neat if he asked me to: | |
| Warm | Go to a cozy little coffee shop where we could have a nice latte in a quiet space and talk with each other. |
| Warmer | Go to an art gallery opening where we could see some good art, drink wine, and eat tasty hors d’ oeuvres. |
| Hot | Go bicycling on the canal, where we’d be out doing something active and fun, in nature, by the water. |
| At a social function, another woman flirts with your man. What do you do? | |
| Warm | I gently suggest that we go somewhere else in the room, to put some distance between him and her. |
| Warmer | I get my man’s attention, and make sure it stays on me. I move closer to him to show her that he’s mine. |
| Hot | I kiss my man to show her that he’s mine. I might say something about her to let him know she’s bad news. |
| To have a great time, what would you most like to do? Not to kick back and relax, but to really enjoy yourself. | |
| Warm | I’d have a cookout at home with my friends. We’d grill up some steaks, eat homemade potato salad, and enjoy each other’s company. |
| Warmer | I’d go to a movie or see live music with my friends. We’d get a drink and a bite to eat afterward, and talk about how good the show was. |
| Hot | I’d go dancing or take an aerobics class with my friends. We’d move to the beat, sync our steps, and afterward we’d say, “That was fun!” |
| Which row describes you best? | |
| Warm | The descriptions in this row sound most like me. I think my intensity level is warm, and that I’m a Tending or Gathering Fox. |
| Warmer | The descriptions in this row sound most like me. I think my intensity level is warmer, and that I’m a Painting or Singing Fox. |
| Hot | The descriptions in this row sound most like me. I think my intensity level is hot, and that I’m a Dancing or Hunting Fox. |
